Sunday Dinner Parties!!

Every Sunday evening the Beres family plays host to a myriad of BYU students to help fight college hunger and have a little fun.  Wendy is very good at knowing when birthdays are coming up and making a big celebrations for everyone's birthday.  This last week we had an exceptionally special birthday for our beloved Mums.  I took the liberty of being the photographer for the evening and snapped a few pictures on my cell phone.

Happy Birthday Mums

Correctness

I just wonder, what the professor's reaction would be if, when asking for an answer, a student were to say, "two hundred and thirty five then thousandths" instead of the normal, "point oh-two-three-five".....

Friend wheel

Years ago I played around with a facebook app called "Friend Wheel" which generates a rainbow colored circle arrangement of your friends and shows the links between each of them (if they're friends or not).  When you mouse over someone's name it highlight's their connections and displays a number of how many connections they have within the circle.  When I first discovered this I found that I had the most number of common friends with one, Melanie Tess Hansen, a girl who had been in my high school, and also in my freshman ward at BYU.  My roommate had also been a high school friend, but he wasn't' a big user of facebook, so he ranked some 40 or 50 common friends less.  The runner up to Melanie (if I remember correctly) was Steffanie Meyer, also a friend from high school and was dating one of my freshman roommates.

Then I went on a mission and made lots of friends there, but facebook wasn't used much in the philippines at the time.  When I came home I became fb friends with lots of my american companions and mission buddies, and over the course of about a year, many of the filipinos I knew also got on facebook and extended my friend connections there.

For the next two years I roomed with one of my original roommates from my freshman year, and to my surprise of of my next door neighbors was a friend from my mission.  A girl from my post-mission ward became my girlfriend and then my fianceé and now my wife.  This is how all those people stack up now:

Melanie Hansen - 120
Chris Taney - 154
Steffanie Meyer Reece - 105
Cameron Reece - 140
Austin Lund - 169
Stephanie Ashby Murray - 104
Erin Murray Herd - 106
David Hyde - 125

(The significance of these last two is one is my sister, Davis is a friend from the mission and I'm sure we only have mission/filipino friends in common.)

Just interesting food for though.

and now you're older still....

I often have made fun of old people.  In my mind there are endless jests toward students who have children, and those who show obvious signs of having a wife watching over them.  I know several engineering students who often mention, my wife made me do this, I need to do that for my wife....  

Living my own life, making my own decisions, that is a symbol of my youth and independence.  Old people are made old by losing their independence, first by marriage, then by the baby in the baby carriage.  

So often have I scorned the student eating the sandwich his wife made, pulling it out of a plastic tupperware, along with a yogurt and spoon.  All carefully packaged with the care only a woman could possibly have for lunch.

......

Such were my thoughts today as I put my plastic tupperware back into my backpack and thought, I'M OLD!!!    though I don't wish anything else, since being married is so much better than single life, and the 'loss of independence' really isn't bad.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CQd4tAQJT_M

Wed

I'm married!!!

For those of you missing the meaning of the post about the milk, I got married on June 18th to the most beautiful girl ever! After our wedding we went to Brian Head, UT and spent the weekend there. We hiked around a bit durring the day and sat down on the ski lift to take this picture.

One of the highlights of our thip was having the restaurant staff guess that we were newlyweds and giving us free dessert! That's not all though, the free dessert we got was an amazing churro covered cheesecake!! whick was, needless to say, delicious.

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Brigham

It is reported that President Brigham Young once said that he who takes offense when no offense was intended is a fool, and he who takes offense when offense was intended is usually a fool.

Face it with a smile

This is a somewhat exaggerated view-point, and just a compilation of thoughts I once had (written Feb. 7).  I am re-posting it now (June 8), because I don't believe in surpression of the press.


Today I had some deep thoughts about a friend of mine. This friend has a problem, a problem not commonly seen as a problem, but over the past several months I have grown to know this friend, and even more so in recent weeks, and I have grown painfully aware of this problem of hers. She has a problem with sarcasm. Do not think I am criticizing anyone for being sarcastic, I am a strong advocate of sarcasm and its many uses in our life (I think that life has a way of being sarcastic itself), I have just seen that for this friend of mine sarcasm has become somewhat of a problem and hinderance in her life.

I watched her today struggle slightly in relating some of her feelings, her true thoughts and emotions that she was trying to express were still masked behind her consistent sarcastic stream. It was not only today that I began to see this problem. Recently in her life she has been experiencing some very important growing experiences, times requiring a serious face and a mature attitude, and while she has continued to laughingly postpone some of these there have been those where she has forcefully swallowed her habits and become a serious person for the moment. Today she again fightingly got through a serious situation and was reasonably serious, though her sarcastic slips are what opened my mind to her problem and the struggle she faces.

I applaud her for her effort, I hope that she will be able to have the experiences necessary to help her overcome this problem, not to rid herself entirely of sarcasm, but perhaps some slightly better control over it :-)

13 days

At work on saturday I was dutifully stocking the milk when I noticed this 'best if used by date' and took a picture. I said outloud, "19 June, I'll be married by the time this milk expires!"

it's that close.

The Cs

I haven't blogged for ages, and I wish I had more time to do so. Quite honestly I spend more time with Steph, and I don't really care that I don't blog so much. Anyhow, after this evenings game I wanted to stick my neck out with a prediction: there will be no three-peat for Kobe and the Lakers. Yeah, that's right the defending champs are surely going to be taken down this year. By who? you might ask, well clearly not the Magic since Superman can't seem to manage his team enough to stop the Celtics. So yes it is the Celtics who I pick in 6 games over the Magic and then in 7 games over the Lakers.
I chose this for several reasons. 1) Green is a much better color than Yellow. 2) When your team all-star has an off night you struggle, if Kobe is ever not on top of his game the other Lakers struggle, but can often pull through. When Paul Pierce struggles you've got KG. When Garnett is having a tough night, you've got Ray Allen (who happens to be #3 having come from Seattle, my hometown-team). Lets say the defense is really hammering them all that night, up steps Rasheed Wallace and Rajon Rondo, all wonderful players, all of them all-stars (or soon to be), and that is why the Celtics will win.

if you like it...

So I haven't posted in a long time. I've been pretty busy with life lately. Primarily school has been consuming my time. I have 8am classes everyday, so I try to get to bed early, and I get up and go and go go go all day long trying to finish everything. I've been doing pretty good thus far keeping up with all of my homework and understanding all of the material in my classes... except maybe Geology (which is where I sit now) I just asume that it's easy stuff, which it ends up being not so easy, hmm oh well.

Other than school I have had the exciting adventure of dating a beautiful girl in my ward, Stephanie. As you might have guessed by the included picture, we are now engaged, as of last tuesday. It has surely been a time investment dating her, spending many late nights talking and getting to know each other. One week ago I asked her to marry me, and she said yes. Some people say getting engaged is scary, some people say it can be stressful or hard... I think it's the greatest thing that has ever happened to me.

School is now coming to an end, we only have 2 full weeks of school left and then it's on to spring, a wedding, and a summer (where Steph and I will just be working) and to me it sounds like one big adventure. "To live would be an awfully big adventure"

Burning Bridges

On the island of Palawan, on the western border of the Philippines, there is a small fishing on the eastern coast, right in the middle of the norther half of the island. This small town is called Roxas, there are several towns further north which are so far removed that they are home to several resorts, tropical getaways, though you'd be hard pressed to call them tourist towns, they're just that small. Some things I'd like to tell you about Roxas. It's economy is supported by two industries: fishing and cashews. Those who aren't fishermen or farmers run one of the town's few shops, and then there's your random mix of city and church officials and constructions workers. Roxas is a very small town.

I spent four months there and in that time I personally spoke with three of the town's city councilmen. I met with members from every church in town (Adventists, Catholic, INC, Pentecostal (two dif. churches) Baptists, and Muslim) and with pastors from 4 of those. I knew the home and names of the top ten richest people in town, I knew family relations between many of them, and I met several of them. I walked every single street in within the 'downtown' area many many times, and even explored some of the alleyways. I met with school principals, radio announcers, and big business men, but not because I was so cool, or even because I worked so hard to find famous people, it's just that there were so few people that you couldn't help but meet all of these people.

Pictures: (1)Google map image of the entire town (2)me being 'lost' looking for the seashore.

So it's a small town. On the western edge of the town there is a large school run by some Canadian/American charity that takes donations from 'sponsors' and uses the money to teach kids, (a good education can be a very big thing in the Philippines). The only stipulation for families enrolling in said school is that the kids and the parents attend a bible school type thing. It's some strange non-denominational 'We read the bible" hotshots who think that their reading of the bible make them superior to everyone else (and this attitude rubs off on the families).

So those two factors (small town, crazy bible schooled adults) combine to make this story:

I was wandering down sandy walkways going from house to house talking to people, we had taught a simple first lesson at the home of an older lady, and noticed some people watching/listening outside (easy to do since the houses are bamboo and windowless). We left and started talking to those who had been observing us, this one lady was rather stern about not listening to us, but I guess she was too polite to send us away because we got invited in.

Being the great missionary I am, I had her round up all her kids, and bring her husband in from the back room and we began to teach a lesson, however she made me promise that we weren't there to baptize her into our church. Her husband was quiet, and she was compliant mostly agreeing with everything we said, but not really caring. When we started teaching about Joseph Smith and modern prophets I asked her if she believe me, she said yes. I asked her then if she would be willing to follow the prophet, she said sure. I didn't think she quite understood my point so I repeated myself, she once again agreed and said something to the effect of, Oh good, Joseph Smith's a prophet, that's a great thing for him, I read the bible too, and it's a great thing for me. I'm normally a calm guy, but something a her saying "big whoop" about Joseph Smith really caught me on fire, so I did my little logic thing again, saying prophets have authority (sure) Joseph Smith's a prophet (sure) you must get baptized by authority like the bible says (sure) then you have to get baptized in the church restored through Joseph Smith- the one with authority!

She wasn't happy that I told her to get baptized, and I felt really bad that I had told her to, we quickly finished the lesson, got a return appointment and left. The next morning right after comp study I couldn't contain myself to do what we had planned, I had to go back to that house and apologize to her for breaking my promise. Sadly, it was too late to apologize, the bridge was already burned now that family, and likely any one in their neighborhood will listen to the missionaries ever again... and it is sad.

Luckily I had enough success on my mission that I didn't beat myself up too much over that one. Now it serves to teach me a very important lesson on promises, trust, and the influence for bad and good that one man can have.

not today

Remember that part on Toy Story when Woody and Buzz are flying up in the air 'cause Buzz is strapped to that rocket and Wood is all worried that they're going to explode and he says, "This is part where we blow up!" and Buzz suavely replies, "Not today!" pushes the button to release his spring-loaded wings, cutting the duck-tape and allowing them to glide away to safety. ... yeah, I like that part.

So the other day I was feeling very grateful for some of my material possessions, namely my beautiful earphones. A few months ago I posted about the varying quality of the earphones I used, saying how great it would be to have a real nice pair of earphones that could deliver superb quality etc. Well my loving mother read that post and decided that Santa should give me such for christmas, hence I now own a very fine pair of d-Jays, noise-canceling, in-ear earphones. While ecstatic over their quality I was dismayed that I had but my laptop in terms of portable music (translation: I had no iPod), it was still absolutely marvelous to watch movies with my own personal surround sound.

However, before the new semester even started, I was chillin' with some friends talking about Christmas gifts when one friend mentioned they got a new iPod Touch, I jokingly (but slightly serious) asked if I could then have her old iPod nano. She said sure, and I am now a happy owner of a silver, 3rd gen. iPod nano :-D. As I was moseying around campus, listening to some killer tunes, I realized how extremely glad I was for this gift. I think it is a great halmark of a deeply christian person that they may not act nice on an outward, every-day level, but when it comes to the big things they're ready to give.

All I have to say, go world.

Somber

My most recent post has been removed until further notice... not that it's content was interesting or that you actually wanted to read it, but I like to make this whole blog thing sound official.

So for now I'll just say that I had a good posting topic that I have since forgotten about.

As my last post has been removed due to it's offending nature, I wish to offer my public apology to those involved.

I can't help...

I'm posting today about nothing in particular. I wish I had more time to do everything. Yeah I'm sitting on campus wasting the next ten minutes writing this post, but I really don't have much else I could be doing right now. Some things take large blocks of time, like structural analysis work for example. One problem takes me about 30 min to complete, and half of that is just understanding the question. Therefore for me to start working on my structures homework right now, I'd get started and in 20 minutes I'd have to go to class and then later tonight I'd practically be starting over again thinking about what the problem is asking me to solve and how to do it. I could study for my stats test, but pretty much this first chapter has been so super easy that I'm not sure what there is to study. Finding averages is something I think I learned in like 5th grade. And so I will continue to sit here.

As of late I've been spending an extraordinarily large amount of time with a certain person, Stephanie. Pretty much if I'm not in class or sleeping (or when she's in class or sleeping) we're together. Its nice to have a constant companion like that, not one of force, but one I've chosen myself. In fact, to be honest, she's my girlfriend, and having not dated much it doesn't mean much when I say that I've never enjoyed being with someone as much as I do her, but I still say it. An interesting thought I had the other day was about some advice from my dad. He doesn't give me advice everyday, but the things he tells me are often very precise, measured, and direct advice for struggles I'm facing (and they're often accompanied by a general conference talk or BYU devotional that deals with the same subject). His dating advice has come to me in chunks over the years, and one of the most memorable sparked not by a talk or experience of his own, but by an Adam Sandler movie, '50 First Dates.' He has told me the message of making your [significant other] fall in love with you everyday is one of the best he has ever seen in a movie. As I pondered on that thought I realized that giving Steph a reason to fall in love with me every day is not something I've worked at yet... but that's because it's come naturally. Again, the limited time (two weeks of dating) may present a less than adequate knowledge, but I feel pretty optimistic for the future.

Outcome: win

Now that the College Football season is officially over and all the bowl games have been played. It looks like out of nine bowls I predicted five of them correctly, that's above 50%, I can feel good about that. In my defense, had I know of Iowa's returning QB, I might have picked them and Oregon really could have beat OSU... the just didn't. But that's how the game rolls.

Today I read a post-season, pre-season poll. Now that it's all over Yahoo!'s rivals.com put together their top 25 for next season. I was quite offended to see Oregon State as #20, but no BYU. Huston as #21, but no Air Force. TCU and BSU ranked in the top six, amidst the National Champs and Rose Bowl teams, but those were about the only good choices made. Nebraska and Wisconson in the top 10?!? And whoever put Texas as #8 must have missed the part about the true freshman leading his team to 15 unanswered points and bringing the Longhorns within 3 of Alabama. He's got the whole offseason to bring his whole game up to competition level and I expect to see them go big.

Anyhow.... that is all I have to say on the subject of football for half a year now. Whatever happens, you can be sure that the BCS and the Big 6 as we know it are on their way out. :-D

We will rock you

So usually I write when I'm emotional, right now I'm emotional. BYU basketball just scored a HUGE win over UNLV 77-73, right here in the Marriott Center. I was in attendance with several friends, some of which decided they were tired and left early.... LAME. The game turned out to be one of the most intense games of basketball I have ever seen. UNLV is by and large our greatest rival/competition when it comes to basketball. Yeah, we'll still rise and shout against the Utes and bring out all our racist rival comments, but they're not much for competition. UNLV though is right up there with us (and New Mexico) in getting nationally ranked and playing with the big dogs. So tonight was a big deal (as it was also our conference-play opener). I just loved being there, jumping and throwing my hands up when Tavernari knocked down his 3s, screaming so loud and hearing the Marriott Center erupt as big plays were made. It was fun also to see Cecil O. Samuelson with his wife (who stayed the entire game) sitting on the front row across the court. It made me a fan again of BYU hoops ^_^